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too. It is a hard thing not to, at least at first.
I would like to share with you a few
ways that I have found useful in helping you
keep your energy as purely positive around
your intention as you can:
Decide, really decide, what you want
There are very few things as powerful as an
intention that is decided upon and stated
powerfully and repeatedly. It is here and
now that we need to make the decision
to go for what it is we desire with lots of
forward energy and no fear. If you really
are still grieving an old relationship, respect
that and just set a smaller intention to feel
better every day about what has happened
and to heal and move forward.
Keep the focus on you
Both Sally and Karen were directing a lot
of energy towards other places rather than
on themselves. Sally couldn't find time
for herself, even for a few hours. I am not
speaking about a big clubbing night out
every week -- she couldn't create just a few
hours to be out and about in the world
doing something that wasn't work or child
related. This is neither normal nor healthy.
Karen was placing a lot of attention on
her former partner who'd found someone
else and this only wound her up further.
Really, she shouldn't even know whether
he had someone new or not! As for her
belief that she heard he was "happy", how
on earth would she really know? People
often look "happy" on the outside when
other things are happening behind closed
This obsessing is just the "head miles"
we do, hurting ourselves and creating
more negative resentful emotion. Stop
thoughts like these! Make a conscious
decision that every time your mind takes
you to this place of marathon hurt instead
choose to think about something great you
are planning for yourself.
If you have mutual friends in common
with your Ex and they talk about your Ex
to you, tell them politely that you would
rather not discuss or hear about that
person. Focus on you, you, you...and what
you need and want. Do not be distracted.
Create a great life
One sure way to get that wonderful "like
attracts like" energy working for you is to
build for yourself a life that makes you feel
good most of the time. It seems one of our
greatest tortures is that our past lovers are
now having a great life and we are not.
Now I am going to say something here
'The only person in the way of you moving towards
living a great life is you.'
than some of you may not like. The only
person in the way of you moving towards
living a great life is you. You make the
choices from now on. No matter what
someone else has done to you, from this
moment forward it is you who chooses
how your life is going to proceed. So get
excited about this choice!
Witches speak about choosing from a
pleasure-led perspective. This means you
choose the option or the activity that feels
best and most pleasurable to you, and this
is a great way to set yourself on the road
to a better life that feels more positive.
This may not be natural or easy for you
at first, so start small. Think about what
makes you happy or what activity in the
past (even in childhood) that gave you a
feeling of pleasure and make a list. Then,
take a big breath and do these things. Begin
now! From these small beginnings big
For some of us, saying "yes" and thinking
about all the consequences of such a
powerful, life-changing energy can scare
us. We have been hurt before and even
though we want someone new and want to
feel love again, there is always a big chance
that we'll feel the pain of it not working out
Feel the fear, see it for what it is and then
release it as often as you need to. Ensure
you have understood the lesson in your last
relationship(s) and with this knowledge
comes a peace created from this wisdom.
Get some professional assistance if you
feel you don't know what's going wrong for
you or that you need to Cut the Cords with
your past. You are less likely to go down
a wrong path again if you know where it
I suggest you make the decision here
and now to be lion hearted about saying a
true and unequivocal "yes". Be brave about
matters of the heart. Have faith that your
intention in all its power will create itself
into your existence.
Remember, the heart is a muscle, if you
don't choose to use it, you'll lose it. ●
* Names have been changed
Stacey was the metaphysical expert on the hit
TV series, The One, and is a life member of
the Australian Psychics Association.
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